The tenets of taekwondo are pretty similar to the Air Forces core values: courtesy, integrity, perseverance, self control and indomitable spirit.
One McChord Reservists daughter followed all of those tenets to become the worlds youngest taekwondo black belt, and it all started because of a deployment.
According to Department of Defense demographics, in 2011 there were more than 71,000 Airmen in the Air Force Reserve. There were more than 110,000 family members associated with those Airmen.
The Military K-12 Partners reported in April 2012 that 2 million children have experienced the deployment of a parent since 2001.
For the DeLibero family, staying active has kept them afloat during deployment and temporary duties.
Staff Sergeant Scott DeLibero is a traditional Reservist with the 446th Civil Engineer Squadrons utilities shop. He and his wife, Kalisa, have two children Simon, 10, and Sidney, 6. During their 10 years as parents, Scott and Kalisa have experienced one deployment and countless TDYs.
My wife is the driving force behind keeping the family as tight as it is, especially with deployments and TDYs and tech school for 130 days, DeLibero said. She always finds ways to keep us together.
He deployed to Iraq in 2006 when Simon was 4 years old. Kalisa said it was a tough transition for the family because she had just given birth to Sidney and Scott had never been gone for that long.
It was difficult for Simon because all of a sudden he has a 6-week-old little sister and his dad is gone, she said. So, I tried to find something for him to do to get him active. We tried to go do things that we would normally do, and he would end up sobbing because he was missing his dad. So, I couldnt take him to do those things. It was hard. So, taekwondo was a good option.
When Simon started taekwondo, Kalisa brought Sidney along. For a few years, when the little girl was too young for the classes, the instructors let her toddle along beside the class, off the mat and out of the way.
This went on until she turned 3 and was allowed to begin learning the sport alongside her brother.
Usually, theyre not allowed to start that early, Kalisa said. She just went for it, standing next to kids that were twice her age.
Its just something that I think they needed to have, some kind of physical outlet, DeLibero said. Simon was being a good example and a good leader for her. She took to taekwondo like a duck to water.
Both children have stayed with the sport through multiple absences of their father for military duty.
When there are those periods of time when youre gone, the less time they have to stress about some of the issues that we have as a military family, the better, DeLibero said. This is a real good outlet for them to be able to handle some of those issues.
Sidney said her favorite part of the sport is sparring because she likes kicking and punching opponents. In September, the tenacity of the now 6-year-old little girl paid off. Sidney was awarded her first-degree black belt.
After Sidneys instructor sent the documentation to the World Taekwondo Headquarters in South Korea, DeLibero received word that his daughter was the youngest black belt in the world.
We knew that it was cool that she was going to be a black belt because she was so little, Kalisa said. We were all excited. But, a woman came to her ceremony who told us that Sidney was the youngest in America and the world. Thats when we realized this is bigger than we thought.
As if Sidneys success wasnt enough, her now 10-year-old big brother is a second-degree black belt in taekwondo. Occasionally the two spar outside of class.
Simon will hold back because he still thinks of her as his little sister, Kalisa said. But, Sidney, she wont hold back.
She may look cute, Simon said, but strap sparring gear on her and she is a demon.
In addition to taekwondo, Kalisa has Simon and Sidney involved in church, roller skating and piano lessons. They need to be well-rounded, Kalisa said. Its important to have different groups of friends and a good support system, especially if Scott ends up deployed again. Its kind of nice for them to be busy.
Im extremely proud, DeLibero said. Whether they got black belts or didnt, my kids are cool. As a military family with MWR and JBLM McChord, weve done a lot of great things and it helps us be as tight as we are.